“How do you self publish a (children’s) book?”

(The words and opinions of this blog are that of the author and her experiences. This is not professional advice, and should not be used in lieu of that.)

This question. I get asked it a lot. Like A LOT a lot.

And I get it. The authoring world (I think that what it can be referred to as) is a closed gate community where the gate is wrapped in barbed wire, fed a continuous supply of fuel and is lit up in flames… with a notorious wizard claiming ‘YOU SHALL NOT PASS’!

Ok, that may be slightly dramatic, but what I am trying to say is it’s VERY gatekeepy. Tall poppy syndrome is rife, and if someone wants to share advice, it is usually half the story and leaves you more confused than before you asked.

When you have the dream of creating a book for the world to read, you begin excited, full of inspiration and hungry for direction or guidance. All that can get swatted down pretty fast if you’re not careful. Until you find ‘your people’ or ‘your corner of the authoring world’, you can face a lot of rejection, judgement, and individuals/companies taking advantage of inexperienced writers (I refer to inexperienced as in never been published/self-published before).

When it comes to aspiring children’s book authors (I don’t really talk with people working on novels, non-fiction, etc. but I imagine it would be similar), I find them so full of passion and vulnerability, with this burning pursuit for connection. This is both their greatest strength (things created from the heart are always so special), and biggest fragility (dreams can be so powerful and simultaneously easy to shatter). Please know all this is just my opinion and perspective, along with my personal experience, and I hope that this blog helps strengthen anyone who reads it to getting their very much needed AND wanted story out in the world.

Super quick about me: Positionality Statement

Just incase anyone reading this has never heard of me or my books (they are for a niche audience), but also a providing a positionality statement. A positionality statement is such an important thing to begin with, as not only does it introduce you to your audience, it also reveals the lens in which you see the world through (I’ll write a blog about positionality statements soon).

So. Hi, I’m Nell Harris and I am a self-published author / illustrator, best known for my ‘Neurodiversity without the Terminology’ series. I am an Australian mother and wife, I am Neurodivergent and live in a wonderfully Neurodivergent household. My approach and perspective is the social emotional experience to life. My first book ‘My Brain is a Race Car’ is currently my physical best seller, while my second book ‘My Body has a Bubble’ is the most popular on my YouTube, and ‘My Feelings are Waves’ is a popular library hire. I published my first book in January of 2023 with help from a friend who had also published children’s books dedicated to her kids. Without her, I know my books would still be only in my daughter’s hands.

These are some of my books!

To the right is a snap of my books and are the first 3 in my Neurodiversity without the Terminology series.

My Brain is a Race Car is about understanding and accomodating for a neurodivergent brain.

My Body has a Bubble is about understanding, respecting and protecting personal space.

My Feelings are Waves is about big feelings and Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD).

Since then, I have collaborated with a few friends;

Renee Stewart, a passionate Play Therapist and her book ‘Sometimes Play’.

Lizzie Somerfield, a powerhouse of Neurodiversity in Workplace education and her book ‘Lucy & Liam Explore Empathy’.

Zara McDonald from Brave & Able calm breathing buddies, and her book ‘You’re Brave & Able, Too’.

The reason why I was inspired to write my books is because I couldn’t find them existing already in the exact context I wanted. It frustrated me SO MUCH that I could not find books for kids that explained neurodiversity simply, factually, did not use damaging/incorrect words (like condition or disorder), did not focus on deficits, or othering.

But we’re not her to talk about me, so without too much more rambling, here is how to publish a children’s book - the Nell Harris way!

I just want to clarify and add a couple of disclaimers (I think thats the right word). I have no affiliation, connections, or agreements with any of the companies, products or people mentioned below or in other blogs (and if I do I promise I will make it abundantly clear) nor do I make any profit from recommending them. This is my all learning, experience, and genuine process from me, it’s my way.

Whew, that was a lot hey. I hope the drop down topics reduced the overwhelm, because it can be so daunting and I’ve tried to write out in the most succinct way how I create and publish my books.

Is my way the only way? No.

Is it the best way? Possibly no (I cold even go as far as say most likely not). But it’s my way and I like it.

Do you have to do it this way? Absolutely not! Take what works and leave the rest.

I just hope this gives direction, inspiration and the reality that YES, it s achievable, and if you have time I’d love to hear if this has helped you or not.

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